Praise, the Youth Coerper |
I remember my stay in what we call Family House. The family House is a building that houses a body of transiting christian youth corpers. My country has a policy that enables every first degree fresh graduates to socialize, encounter work experience and have diversity exposure in various locations of the country. A national body sends a list to each university of where every final year student should be headed upon completion of their program. Most posting sends people to locations that are distant and unfamiliar. You are required to serve the nation for one year in that location. The goal is to enable the spirit of service, patriotism, and work culture in fresh graduates.
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It begins with one month of camping for everyone. And usually the outgoing set meets with the incoming group in each state and they take off from there. The family house is a house that welcomes those who were Christians on campus and those who choose to join them. Usually, accommodation, after the one month camping is tough as you have to fend for yourself, but the Family house, a body of Christians, uses the opportunity to reach out to people. Somehow, I had accommodation provision from a family friend but had to go and stay in the family house because I was appointed the welfare secretary when the new leadership team was appointed.
The family house residents went to our various places of posting for work daily, such as schools as youth corper teachers, and other offices that chose to welcome corpers. We always began our day communally with prayers, sharing the word from the bible and we had a great time fellowship-ping. We made a general meal daily, also have evening devotions before we went to sleep. We had chores and duties. We did community cleaning more rigorously at weekends and we also cook twice daily at weekends.
We had goals and collective projects such as improving the building that housed us ( it was an uncompleted building, being built by these ordinary corpers and each set contributes), rural evangelism, annual concert and national conference. We all participated accordingly and spirits were always high in family house. We were young school leavers with great prospects in the face of economic hardships, so the leadership usually focuses on faith, resilience, righteousness, diligence and such values during exhortations. We did form, I was not cognizant of the storming stage but it occurred here and there. We met established norms which we had to imbibe, and they were pleasant and helped the communal living. Family house was fun, we were family.
At the end of our service period, emotions welled up, A lot of us were already so bonded, some were engaged to be married, some have already secured good jobs with credible established companies, and some were yet to have anything at all. We encouraged ourselves as we had been doing. We had a party with awards and recognition of contributors. This is a norm that every set must undergo. We were very emotional as we were to part with each other.
It was hard to part because we had become a family. It was a mixed feeling. Yes a stage of our lives which we all at one time longed for has just been accomplished. Well then, how about the new family we had formed, It was not very exciting separating. We had to say goodbye and we tried to keep important contacts ( Abudi, 2009).
The adjourning stage of the teamwork is essential because it reveals the true nature of the team spirit of the team that has existed. It is like examining the emotional social and physical well being of the group.
Reference:
Abudi, G. (2010). The five stages of team development: A case study. Retrieved from http://www.projectsmart.co.uk/the-five-stages-of-team-development-a-case-study.html
O'Hair, D., & Wiemann, M. (2012). Real communication: An introduction. New York: Bedford/St. Martin's
Hello Praise,
ReplyDeleteYour experience sounds awesome, I can only imagine what tearful goodbyes were exchanged but also all the lifelong friendships that were born through the Family house.I really enjoy reading your posts because I find it very interesting to see how other countries do things. I also love to read what the word of Jesus Christ is doing in other parts of the world!
I loved reading your post. You have been teaching me so much about your life and how different yet the saeme everyone is. I think that the awards ceremony was an important part of closure for you. It is essential that we acknowledge everyones hard work.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing! Lisa
Great post! I learned a lot from the details you provided. I think the ceremony was a great way to adjourn the group. I have used this to complete groups and its been a great way to say goodbye ...especially for those people who are uncomfortable with goodbyes.
ReplyDeleteWhat an awesome experience! Leaving a group where you have establish close relationships is never easy. What is positive about it is having the opportunity to continue those relationships and take with you everything you learned from the experience to other groups.
ReplyDeleteHey Praise!
ReplyDeleteFirst of all I want to start by telling you that I love your name (I think I had mentioned this before) and also tell you that I have enjoyed reading your blog throughout this course and all the other courses we shared together. Thank you for sharing all your stories! I look forward to a bright future and I am sure yours will be too, as I have been able to see how your views on life are positive and coherent to a world hat so much needs childhood professionals. Best of luck to you in your future! :)
Hi Praise,
ReplyDeleteMy name in Jen and I was not in your group for this course, but I wanted to stay in touch with you if possible. I remember you from the student lounge. I hope that this course has been a wonderful learning experience for you and I wish you luck in your future endeavors. I am very serious about visiting Africa someday and would love to have a contact there when I am ready to make that happen. I would also be very interested to see the work you are doing over there. I think it is so beneficial for us to have international colleagues in this field. Please consider staying in touch with me. My email address is bajajen95@yahoo.com.
Peace,
:)Jen